Ukudala ibala lokudlala labantwana elamkelwa ngokufudumeleyo ngabantwana nabazali kubandakanya imingeni ebanzi. Ngaphandle kweenzame zotyalo-mali kucwangciso, uyilo, kunye nokukhetha izixhobo, isigaba sokusebenza sibaluleke ngokulinganayo. Ngokukodwa kwibala lokudlala labantwana elidibanisa ukuzonwabisa, ukwenza umthambo, kunye nezinto ezifundisayo, ukwenza uphando olucokisekileyo lwemarike ukuze kuqondwe amasiko asekuhlaleni, izinto abazikhethayo kunye notyekelo lwabantwana kubalulekile. Ukukhetha isixhobo sokudlala esifanelekileyo kubalulekile, kwaye ukuyila uyilo lulonke, kubandakanywa ubuhle bemveliso, izixhobo ezikhaphayo, kunye nesimbo soyilo, ngundoqo ekuyileni ibala lokudlala labantwana elijikelezwe kakuhle elilungiselelwe iimfuno zabo.
Ngexesha lesigaba sokusebenza, ukunyusa umdla wabantwana, ukwazisa amabhaso kunye nokubonelela ngamabhaso amancinci kunokukhuthaza ukuthatha kwabo inxaxheba. Oku akupheleli nje ekukhuthazeni intsebenziswano phakathi kwabantwana kunye nebala lokudlala kodwa kukwafaka imvakalelo yokuphumelela kwabo basebenza nzima ukuze bafumane imivuzo, nto leyo ebenza batyekele ngakumbi ekutyeleleni rhoqo.
Ukuphucula intsebenziswano phakathi kwabantwana, ngakumbi kwimeko yentlalo yasezidolophini yanamhlanje apho uninzi lweentsapho lunomntwana omnye kwaye isantya sobomi basezidolophini sikhawuleza, kufuna ukubonelela ngemekobume ekhuthaza ngokwendalo unxibelelwano nokudlala. Imeko elolo hlobo inokunceda abantwana bayeke ukuzahlula, nto leyo ebenza bakulungele ngakumbi ukunxulumana nabanye.
Kwangaxeshanye, ukomeleza intsebenziswano phakathi kwabantwana nabazali, xa kujongwa indlela yokuphila ekhawulezileyo yezixeko zanamhlanje nexesha elilinganiselweyo lokuphumla labazali, amathuba onxibelelwano phakathi kwabazali nabantwana aya encipha. Ukwazisa imiba yentsebenziswano yomzali nomntwana kunceda ukulungisa lo mba. Ipaki ye-adventure yabantwana ephumeleleyo akufuneki ibambe ingqalelo yabantwana kuphela kodwa ikwanxibelelana nabazali, iseka unxibelelwano olusondeleyo phakathi kwebala lokudlala kunye neentsapho, ekugqibeleni yenze ukuba ipaki yamkeleke ngakumbi kubantwana nakubazali.
Ixesha lokuposa: Nov-10-2023